Facebook Flying in a world of Fantasy if its thinks it has Security!

If there is one thing that Social Networking has done, its made the world a more dangerous place!

So we are back to talking about "Facebook" and its constant run of putting profits and views above all else...

From the moment I was alerted to a Page/Group promoting Child Sexual Abuse that had set up on the world famous network a few years ago - Myself and many other users did all we could to get these pages shut down.

We actually thought that Facebook, a Global Corporation after all, would want to protect its users and therefore increase its fan base...

WE WERE WRONG!

The reality is that Facebook does not give a damn as long as it is getting advertising revenue from how popular a page is... So they do not care!

You know... Normally I try and reserve my bad language as it does not look good on any blog - I always try and speak from the heart but without resulting to abusive words...

So let me apologise right now - TODAY I WILL SHOW NO SUCH RESTRAINT! EXPECT A GREAT MANY CURSES AS THIS IS ENOUGH TO MAKE A SAINT SWEAR!

I am not a tech expert - far from it, but I have learned a few things over the years... When I was first introduced to the Internet and Chat Rooms back in 2001 - I had one view of the World Wide Web... A Pervert's Paradise...

Still, I fell into it and was hooked... I loved using chat rooms and after being burgled and losing all of my record collection - I was introduced into the world of File Sharing...

Yes, I make no bones about it - I was a "Pirate" - Never for profit, just to replace that which I had lost, and bear in mind this was long before the days of i-Tunes - Which meant that this was the only way I could get hold of some of my old records without having to fly to the US and spend several Hundred Dollars for a piece of Vinyl form a record fair...

I got to know how the many pieces of Software worked... I got to know how the many "Hubs" had Human Operators to monitor what people shared... Keeping an eye out for any suspicious files and then banning anyone who looked like they were sharing anything "Perverse"...

In addition to the Human "Operators - There were also Computerised "Bots"

These Bots did automatic scans for set keywords, Meaning that a majority of filth could be stopped before it ever got online... 

SO WHY IN THE YEAR 2015 DOES FACEBOOK STRUGGLE SO BADLY?

Seriously! There is no avoiding it! Facebook are either Ignorant, Greedy or just do not give a fucking shit!!!! How in the hell does a group calling itself "Pedophilematch.com" get past facebooks Censors in the first place?

OK! It could be argued that it was a mistake... But then you see the cover photo which proclaims - And I quote the Groups here!!! This is GENUINELY WHAT IT SAID!

"A Place to Buy and Sell Children for Sexual Gratification Purposes"

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE F**KING KIDDING ME!? SERIOUSLY! FACEBOOK ALLOW THIS PAGE TO BE SET UP BUT BAN PHOTOGRAPHS OF BREAST FEEDING MOMS!?

ARE FACEBOOK SICK!? ARE YOU BLOODY CORPORATE DRONES SERIOUSLY EXPECTING ANY RIGHT MINDED PERSON TO SIT HERE AND JUST ACCEPT THIS BULLS**T!!!

But it's not over there!!! Oh No!

Upon its discovery - Numerous users took to reporting the group to get it shout down... And there in lies yet another issue...

BECAUSE UNLESS YOU BECOME A MEMBER TO VIEW THE DAMN PAGE - YOU CANNOT PROVE ITS BREAKING ANY RULES... BUT BY BECOMING A MEMBER ... Well, You do not need me to tell you...

But, 50 Reports should be enough to get it shout down - Right?

WRONG! There is no actual report button to report the group or page for PROMOTING Child Sexual Abuse!!!!

You can of course report for inappropriate content - Except that does not work...

As Inappropriate content according to facebook does not mean "Selling kids for Sexual Abuse"... Nope! It only covers NUDITY!

This is the official response sent to numerous people who reported this damn group:

"We have reviewed your report of the group for inappropriate content in relation to "nudity" - but have found the posts are not in violation of our terms"

Thats right! Facebook thinks that anyone selling children is Fine and Dandy but show a bit of Cleavage and you get banned! WHAT F**KING PLANET DO YOU COME FROM MARK ZUCKERBURG???

You may think I am getting irate for no good reason... Well, you would be wrong...

I have already mentioned the "Bot Software" that was used by Files Sharing Programs... Now I dare say Facebook will want to argue about costs... I mean they do need to keep overheads down...

BUT THE SOFTWARE IS TOTALLY FREE! IT COSTS THEM NOTHING AT ALL! SO THEY HAVE NO GOD DAMN EXCUSE FOR ALLOWING THIS FILTH TO SPREAD! THEY HAVE NO S**DING EXCUSE FOR PROMOTING SEXUAL ABUSE AGAINST CHILDREN!

Jesus H Christ... Just makes me freaking sick... It really does!

Well, We did manage to get the group shut down....

Then I was informed IT WAS BACK!

Names and Photographs of Informant Removed for Safety purposes and to protect the innocent.

ONLY NOW IT HAS OVER 4,000 MEMBERS!!!!!

Will facebook take any action - NO!

But I am... And many others like me!!!!

We are now planning #BOYCOTT: FACEBOOK - Deliberately to hit the damn site where it hurts - IN IT'S WALLET!

IF FACEBOOK REALLY THINKS ALLOWING THESE SCUM SUCKING POND LIFE ON THEIR WEBSITE IS OKAY - WE WILL TAKE THE VERY MONEY THEY THRIVE ON FROM THEIR POCKETS!

The plan is simple... On the 12th May 2015 Worldwide... All Participants will CLOSE Facebook for 24 hours... No Games, No Mobile Apps, No Posts, No NOTHING!

The more people who just shut off for 24 HOURS - The Loss of Advertising Revenue will be heavy and make Facebook think more seriously about how it treats our young!

But its not stopping there - We are all confident that one day will not be enough - So on the 12th of Every month thereafter - We will do the same again... And Again and Again...

That is in addition to the constant posts to the Media - Oh yes!!! Each time we find one of these "Sick Mother F**kers pages" or Groups... We are all taking Screenshots, making notes of reports, and sending the findings to the major Newspapers... To teh Television.. To Celebrities...

WE WILL NOT STOP UNTIL FACEBOOK TAKES ACTION! OUR CHILDREN ARE NOT COMMODITIES! STOP THESE PERVERTS PREYING ON OUR KIDS ZUCKERBURG! THIS IS IT! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

Join the Crusade @ https://www.facebook.com/events/395318090659810/397416400449979/

Support is great... BUT NOT WHEN YOU IGNORE THE PERSON YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SUPPORTING!!!!!

For once my blog, for how little I post here is going way of track what i normally talk about - As I am going to talk about Jeremy Clarkson.
Yes, the old story of his punching a producer is still making waves... 
With the latest being This story below...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3038690/Bake-star-Sue-Perkins-quits-Twitter-following-death-threats-Gear-fans-linked-Jeremy-Clarkson-s-job.html

So Sue Perkins gets Death Threats over rumors that she may be the next host of Top Gear...

Honestly - WHY!!!! WHO THE FLYING F**K THINKS THIS IS GOOD????

And what makes it worse is obviously these so called "Fans" have no respect for the man they are trying so hard to defend!!!!

How do I know? Because I have this amazing ability that many in the British Public seem to have lost... Its called listening and reading!!!!

Listening to Jeremy Clarkson say in many,many interviews that he accepts whats happened and its over...

Reading his column, where he says he wishes Sue or whoever takes over all the best...

The man himself... The legend, For those who hate him, The rambunctious a**ehole has gave his best wishes.
And he and Sue Perkins are FRIENDS! She did the "Star in a Reasonably Priced car Challenge" and they became good mates! So why would he not wish her well...

I am no fan of Sue Perkins... To be honest her voice to me is like a Cheese Grater across my Knackers...

But if this is true... Then let me say WILL THE ‪#‎BBC‬ (Bring Back Clarkson) Brigade GROW THE F**K UP YOU STUPID, MINDLESS, MORONIC, PATHETIC, LAZY, INBRED, SANCTIMONIOUS LITTLE F**KWITS!

If the man himself is thankful for the support but - And I can say this very openly as I read his column every Saturday in The Sun when he ain't on his Hols... is Fine and Dandy and says "You know what" Screw it! It was dumb... I pinched a fella... I got Sacked, So what! Time to move on!!!" THEN ITS HIS VOICE YOU SHOULD BE LISTENING TO YOU ARROGANT TOSSERS!

DEATH THREATS??? DO YOU WANT THE F**KING SHOW BACK ON THE AIR OR NOT? IF SO - THEN F**KING GROW UP!

And don't think I am going to go lightly on the other side either... The ‪#‎FOC‬ (F**k Off Clarkson) Brigade... YOU A**HOLES ARE NO DAMN BETTER!

Constantly spouting your bile in the Letters and comments of any sodding Newspaper that will listen... Trolling forums and demanding Clarkson be virtually hung, drawn and Quartered...

Lets get this straight shall we... Did the Man he punched Press Charges - NO! Is he going to press charges - NO! Is it worth Pressing Charges - NO!

And yet Police SUPPOSEDLY acting on the words of a "Concerned Member of the Public were trying to get him to do so... And the #FOC SUPPORT THEM!!!

Well #FOC... SHAME YOU WERE NOT SO F**KING VOCAL WHEN POLICE IGNORED PUBLIC CONCERNS IN CASES LIKE BABY P, LAUREN WRIGHT, VICTORIA CILIMBIE and such...

OH NO! DIFFERENT KETTLE OF FISH THEN... THEY WERE NOT CELEBRITIES... GET A F**KING LIFE!

HE HAS BEEN SACKED, HE HAS MOVED ON NOW WILL BOTH #BBC and #FOC JUST SHUT THE F**K UP!

BECAUSE ME AND ALMOST EVERYONE ELSE ARE NOW PART OF THE ‪#‎DILLIGAF‬ BRIGADE... DO I LOOK LIKE I GIVE A F**K?

The story is over - Crawl back to your holes and find a new plaything!

All images are here from the Daily Mail Website and Copyright of their respective owners - They are here merely for illustration purposes and no copyright infringement is intended. These image must NOT be shared publicly without the consent of @Exposurephotos.com and &BBC/Love Productions/ Des Willie

Mastering The Myths Part 1

Well, Its been a while again, and I need to get back to keeping this up to date more often...

I have been quiet for a while but also having a good browse of the Facebook Pressure groups and have seen some very interesting questions being posed by people who want advice when it comes to Social Services.

Many Questions seem fairly simple and others are more complex and very generalized... But it has shown to me that there are many serious misconceptions about Social Services, especially what they CAN and CANNOT do...

So over a few blogs now, I am hoping to try and answer some of those questions from what i have learnt in my experience of them... For some areas I will be speaking to a couple of trusted people who I know work in Law, so we can hopefully make sure this is as accurate as possible.

I will also be discussing some other issues raised on the internet that can, and are, linked to various Conspiracy Theories. Let me just say before I do start this then that I am NOT going to support nor condemn the various "Ideas" of a New World Order... If you want to look into that and feel its real - Good! If not... Then that's good too!

The aim here is simply to try and help people understand that In's and Out's... Not to slate anyone's beliefs.

So I am going to start this with one that was making its way around Facebook not so long back:

"I Have been told that My child's Birth Certificate makes them My Property... Should I argue this in court?"

Yes, I have seen this one too... And the simple answer is NO! DO NOT EVER USE THIS ARGUMENT IN COURT UNLESS YOU WANT TO LOSE!!!

There is a Conspiracy Theory that "Birth Certificates" are in fact a form of Slavery, and that you should not register your child's birth as such, as they are then "owned by the state". An Interesting argument.

But when you take that theory into account and that many of these same theorists then advise people to demand their children returned as they are "Your Property" - Well, It sort of fails there.

Birth Certificates were introduced initially as a way of keeping an eye on the population, to monitor its growth etc... And it could be argued that they in effect mean "we own" our children.

But the law in the US and UK is very clear... NO ONE OWNS a Human Life...

We may give birth to our children but they are "free willed" beings - The moment you start suggesting a child is your property, then you are in effect saying "I own... I enslave" and needless to say, the law will DESTROY YOU for that very comment!

Children are NOT property under any circumstances... Even if the conspiracy theory is true - You should NOT argue their return based upon some right to ownership.

It is frustrating that hen a child is Fostered, the courts essentially "Own" your child - So it is understandable why people assume that they can argue this way, but it is a total myth! With the introduction in the UK of the so called "Cinderella Law", It would be suicide.

You can however argue that Social Care has treated your child as "Property" - In which case they would be guilty of abuse... But I must warn that proving such would be extremely hard, if not damn near impossible in the system as it stands.

As the law stands, eve if it is abused by the Care System... Your Child is a Free-willed Being, To claim your child is property is Slavery... DO NOT DO IT!

Dangerous Obsession? The pursuit of Justice is never easy...

God its been a long time since I wrote on this blog, but some discussions that start on "Facebook" are just not suitable to discuss there properly - And on came up just the other day...

In a report released on Monday 07 January 2013... Police were investigating the Murder of two Social Workers.

This was being shared around Facebook and, as you will no doubt expect, a lot of people who have lost their children to Social Services were quite happy to cheer about the deaths.

For me, it raised two annoyances...

The first, WHY OH WHY do we keep dragging up reports from the past? How does this help us to get the Government to accept - As Most of the other commonwealth countries such as Australia, that Forced Adoption has been used ILLEGALLY and make them apologise for the scandal?

But the other annoyance for me was that I saw myself in many of the posts... A side of me that almost destroyed me...

The side that is full of blind cold hatred!

In my experience with Social Services, I have met the Good, The Bad and the Seriously god damned Ugly!!!! And I have been abused by the system...

Since they became involved in my life again in 2011, I was subjected to many false claims and despite desperate attempts to get the truth out - I was fighting against a powerful 'Industry' that aimed to take mine and my wifes children...

The lies they were telling led me down a dark path... By 2012, I was spending more time on my computer writing letters and digging for the truth than I was with my son... My anger and hatred became an obsession!

Back then, I would gladly have taken arms and maybe tried to kill most of the Social Workers involved in our case - Except for one thing that kept me from reaching that point. I have morals! I CARE!

If I were to wish death on them, Then I was THEM! I had gave up very last bit of humanity left inside of me and failed my son entirely.

I have no love for the corrupt system... But I can never revel in death - Its wrong! Yes too many children have been wrongly taken from their parents, far too many have been abused physically and sexually over the years as well... The true extent of these abuses is still only just coming to light.

But to see posts such as "F**king SS Scum! They Deserved It!" leaves me horrified...

But why? Shouldn't we feel that way? Why should we not seek vengeance?

It was as I read the news report, that humanity struck me... And a reality.




"Lesley Caile, 48, a registered social worker who worked for Durham council, was found dead at her home in Hunwick, County Durham, on the morning of 24 December.
A 46-year-old man, Peter Edward Yorke, who lived at the property with Caile, appeared in court last month charged with her murder.

Caile, who had two children and three grandchildren, was “held in the highest regard” by her managers and colleagues, according to a tribute issued by her employer.'Held in the highest regard'
She had Grandchildren...

Should we revel in the pain they now feel? Should we become the very epitome of corruption we fight against? Should we be laughing in the face of those left behind simply because we have been hurt by the corrupt system?

I came to realise that, no matter how bad things get - To engage in blind hatred was to become the very system itself.

We are supposed to be doing this for our children... We are supposed to be showing the world that the Social Care System has LIED about us... That we are NOT the monsters they have made us out to be...

Yet we feel we can engage in such virulent abuse online... Where some day these children may see these comments and have to relive a long buried pain once again?

When I responded to this on Facebook, I did say to people I had bitter personal experience to go by... I was not lying.

It was about 12 years ago now that a Friend I had not seen since I first married was brutally murdered on his way home from the pub one night. He was no angel, In fact he was described in church as a "Diamond in the Rough" - He had been to jail in the past but would give his eyed-teeth to help anyone.

He was attacked by 5 teenage youths for no reason... He just asked them if they could make some room.

About a year or so later... I first came across Facebook, and a Memorial page someone set up for him...

...I also found a page made by his critics, Making the same vile attacks I have seen about these social workers. His 13 year old son also saw the posts...

Now think how that child felt seeing what was being said about his father... Is that not in itself a form of abuse?

I challenge anyone to place themselves in the position of these families - No matter what the wrongs of your murdered family member, Would you want to see this hate being put online? Would you like your child to be at risk of seeing this?

Of course we wouldn't! We are BETTER Than Social Services! WE HAVE HEARTS!

SO WHY DO WE FEEL WE CAN ACT EXACTLY THE SAME AS THEY DO?


I understand how painful it is when you have your child taken from you wrongfully... But if we allow ourselves to become Judge, Jury and Executioner... We have already lost the fight for our children.

We also find ourselves in an awful position... You see while we victims are many, We are still only a small number of 63.2 MILLION PEOPLE in the United Kingdom.

To fight for our children, to fight for their future, to fight for justice... WE NEED PUBLIC SUPPORT!

Be honest with yourselves... Is attacking and revelling in the Murder of two Social Workers going to convince the 63 Million we need to reach to support us? Or will they see us as the Thugs and Scum that the system has branded us?

In the comments posted to Facebook so far, I have yet to see anyone, and I mean ANYONE, say anything like "YEAH! You know what... F**k em! Damn Social Workers... Got what they deserved, But I DO feel sorry for the Grandkids... :("

There are CHILDREN that still suffer through this... We may hurt at having our children Stolen by the corrupt system... But we WILL see them again. These children have lost what we can only assume to be a loving grandparent under the most brutal of circumstances. 
No one should EVER have to live through this kind of pain... Yet many victims of the corrupt system already do...

It still cannot justify our forgetting those left behind none the less.
No matter how angry we feel, The moment we forget that there are children involved in anyway, WE Lose the Moral high Ground... We become the very Corruption we fight so hard against!

The Public, The very people we need supporting us, will turn their backs if we do not rise above this. The whole reason we fight is because we are better than them... Isn't it? We fight because we have a heart... A heart that has been broken but a heart none the less... We fight for our children because we love them...

And so we should... But we should never cheer for such heinous crimes as the Murdered are not the only victims... Those left behind suffer as well.

Justice must be done... But not like this...

When you hear of things like this, I cannot blame anyone for the hatred felt towards the Social Services, In fact I would totally support it... But remember - Like us, Its their families and Children you should be thinking of... No matter how much you hate them, The pain left behind is something no one should ever have to face...

Its only my view... You are free to disagree...

But I do fear that our obsession will drive the public away... And without them. We will NOT achieve anything!

New Year, New Start? Or just more of the same????

Well, its been a while... And we had our final hearing about our kids...

Not going to go into details, but the result is long term foster care... I kind of expected that.

But it has been somewhat a time for reflection for me over the Psychological Assessment that I have viewed with such venom all this time. As among all the heaps of bull - There was some very good advice that sadly I missed.

It states in there that I should consider some form of treatment - Now at the time, I was actually so angry that I failed to see this... But now I am looking at it very seriously - But why?

Well, over the last few months, despite bringing my head into a good place, I have found myself falling into the same old routines... When people say words like "I love you" - My heart goes all a flutter and even though I know its a bad idea... I jump in head first!

This has become a sad pattern for me and so I am now seeking help to prevent this happening again or at least enabling me to control it.

So why am I writing this?

Well, as much as there are many complaints about these Psychological Assessments, and with very good reason a lot of the time - It has focused my mind on how important it is to read them thoroughly.

The biggest problem with these things is the jargon... Often you will miss good advice a midst the anger you will feel over more critical comments and the long words don't help!

So what should you do with these bundles?

ANNOY YOUR DOCTOR! Yup! Plain and simple... Take it to your GP and find out in Laymans terms what the Psychologist is trying to say... You may just miss information that, while hard to accept, may be helpful to you and could help you keep your children.

Part of the bad feeling where Psychological Assessments are concerned comes from the past history where a number of them have been found to have been bought and paid for to suit a motive...

Sadly, this does happen quite often even now... But if you speak with your GP you can try and pick the whole thing apart.

For me... Now finally getting the laymans view, I can now start making positive changes to my life... Sadly - Nearing 41, far too late... But still...

While I still hold a lot of venom towards Social Services, Hell - I had a Social Worker LIE quite blatantly to a Court (She was collared and subsequently lost a case she should have won due to her history with me... Ended up in front of the same judge and he threw the whole case out costing the Tax Payer thousands of pounds to have the case reassessed by a new team!), and though it goes against every fiber of my being - We must remember that Social Services for the majority do a good job.

The ideal of child protection is honorable, sadly, not all of those who choose the profession are...

I hope that in time, these blogs will offer a little hope to people...

So the key with a Psychological Assessment - READ EVERYTHING! And if you are not sure or too angry to see the better parts, Speak to your GP - There may just be a little something in there that could turn the tide and stop your children being the next victims of a corrupt social care system.

Technological Nightmares.... Predators online!

Well it has hit the headlines once again, The perils of the internet and the question has arisen once more.

Can Parents do more to protect their children from the dangers of the internet?

CEOP has released details that suggest young children are being blackmailed by SSPL (Scum Sucking Pond Life) especially here in Britain.

While the perverts are often all across the globe, the majority of Victims seem to be targets in the UK.

We should have a very careful look at ourselves in my opinion, and ask ourselves what is it that is so different here in the UK that we are doing wrong?

While my blog is normally about the issues in regards to Social Care and Social Services, this is an issue that I am very clear about and refuse to ignore. In fact it worries me that Social Services seem to be so far behind in the war against these predators and other areas of our Social care System, such as education, are CONSTANTLY ENCOURAGING our children to interact MORE with the Internet!

Social Care seems to be working at odds with itself in regards to the internet. In one respect Social Services are now showing some awareness, it is still far too little and all too often they are missing times where they could help parents and children from becoming victims.

But the question always rises as to what WE as parents can do... And can we do more...

 As I have already said above, our schools have become obsessed with placing homework online - I must say openly that I HATE this...

I see nothing wrong in schools using sites for educational purposes, in fact I feel in some respects it can be a very good thing if handled responsibly - But they are not.

I have now seen three schools in the last year that use the Internet for homework, And two of them were frankly a farce. One, The East point Academy in Lowestoft - Places homework online, but it has to be printed off and completed - Which I think is absolutely excellent! It not only encourages pupils to take responsibility for making sure they get their homework, but encourages them to WRITE!

We have a generation of children who can barely read or write now... This IS how it should be done...

The other's, Which for legal reasons remain nameless, have the homework ENTIRELY online... It is completed on websites, and marked by the program... Time saving yes, Fun yes, Practical - NO!

Why? Simple... The pupil is able to do it over and over and over again until they get it right...

Having watched my own children using the software - I can say in all honesty that the design of the program was seriously flawed... As when I asked my daughter later the same sums she had had to do on the website - She could not give the right answers.

Because she could just keep going until she got it right, she was NOT focusing on the problem... She was NOT trying to work it out... She just clicked until it was right.

Does this seem to be straying off point? Well bare with me... As we are getting there...

As parents seeing more and more homework online, it becomes tempting to trust your children to sit in front of the PC or Tablet and do their homework... And you do not LOOK at what they are really doing - So they end up gaming or on Social Networks instead...

Or, as is the case with the other two schools I have mentioned... They use the inbuilt Social Network system that seems to have made its way into schools.

Hang on a minute! Why does a School have a Instant Message System on its Websites for its Students to contact Students? With the ever present issue of Cyber-Bullying, Who the heck came up with this genius idea?

The Schools will obviously argue they monitor everything very carefully - But as any Facebook user will know, If a Multi Million Dollar corporation struggles, how the hell is a school supposed to handle the issue? Oh thats right! It can't!

So, we have a Social care System that demands we take responsibility for what our children get up to, yet then makes it all the more difficult. Brilliant!

I am sure that i am not the only parent now that has also found my children becoming more demanding as they feel they NEED a Laptop or Tablet of their own...

And then we open yet another door to danger... As they are then free to do what they want when they want!

It has prompted a lot of discussion already, It has been featured on Loose Women - Where I found myself in agreement with Shobna Gulati of "Corrie" Fame when she said we should stop our children being on the internet until they are in their teens. Sadly, thats not likely to happen and even our teens are at risk.

Shobna Gulati even suggested we do not buy our children Internet enabled phones and Tablets - Frankly, I had to agree with her... We should if we are going to allow our children to have this stuff insist they use them in the same room as us.

What did make me annoyed was when Janet Street-Porter queried why we have this idea that we must keep contact with our children at any given moment of the day - as if that was the reason why we let our children have this technology.

If only! The truth is PEER PRESSURE!

We are living in a Gadget mad society - and the more irresponsible are buying anything and everything for their children as some kind of "Look at Me!" Status Symbol... NOT because their children need them.

I have met a few families, who I do not begrudge buying luxuries in any way, that prove just how selfish we really are... One family with three teenagers I know of has a total of A Kindle Fire Each Child, Two Desktop PC's and Three Laptops. The Teens also have an Ipad EACH...

WHY!!!!! WHY IN THE HECK WOULD YOU NEED ALL OF THAT! OH WAIT! THEY DON'T NEED IT!!!!

And having spoke to mum... She did confirm that she bought most of the stuff to "keep up with the joneses" - Their mates at school had got a new Ipad, and she did not want them to feel left out...

WHAT ARE WE THINKING? ARE WE THINKING?

Much as many people will hate me for saying it, there is a lot more we can do...

As a Parent, you should be the single most important influence on your childrens lives, which brings me to the next issue...

Since I begun to start campaigning for change to the flawed Social Care System, I have met many people who are very like minded and want to see change.

But I have also seen so many people, including us who are campaigning for change - Show a complete disregard for our behaviour. I am not innocent - I have made many abusive comments in the past when someone has had a dig at me... I am not proud of it...

But it is a big issue. Obviously if someone wants to have a "Verbal attack" at someone, the first reaction is always going to be to defend yourself and rightly so... Many comments can be extremely vile. But once it has been committed to being put online, That's it! It spreads like a virus... It is everywhere!

Quite recently, Model Leilani Dowding - a former page 3 favourite - has been involved in a rather vicious attack on another former model, Nicola McClean - Even though Miss Dowding deleted her twitter comments, it was too late... The damage was done.

We are no different... We have to be aware of our online presence and how we show ourselves.

Just because we are keeping our arguments online, does not mean it is acceptable behaviour... Yet we seem to think that because it is the Internet, We can keep an attitude of "Do as I Say, Not as I do".

When we try and teach our children about the dangers of the internet, we have to think about how we behave as well. As parents, we are the single most important influence on our children - So if we do not show some form or Internet Etiquette - Why will our children?

I am now more careful about how I handle conflicts online, I have had to educate myself to be more wise and keep my personal issues with people to private messages. Its something we should all do... How can we tell our children they should be careful if we won't?

It is actually common sense!

We have to take a step back and insist that our Social Care System DOES ITS JOB instead of trying to make its own life easier by using the Internet as a go between... Teachers should teach... Not computers!

And we must start to behave as we want our kids to behave... Online or off... It time we bucked our ideas up and started to show respect to one another... No one is saying you should not have free speech and the internet should always be about that... But don't start personal arguments on Social Networks if you want your kids to behave in a better fashion as well. It is just idiocy!

Moreover, We have to STOP TRYING TO BE SO BLOODY GADGET MAD! Our kids do NOT NEED IPADS, LAPTOPS, IPODS, KINDLES, ANDROIDS and whatever else comes out in the next few months...

They do NOT NEED THEM! WE WANT THEM COS WE WANNA LOOK GOOD!

Sod Looking good! Parenting is not about looking good... Its about being responsible!

Who cares who has got what at school... Its time we reminded our children that you do not get something for nothing!

Otherwise... We may as well just hand our kids over to Social Services... As if we do not start to take control now - The next generation won't either.

Do you agree with me? Do you have anything to add? I know I may not have covered everything well... So I really want your opinions...

Are we Gadget Mad? Are we giving our children too much without any recourse? Are our Schools breeding a generation of thickos by being to reliant on technology to teach our kids? Are our kids copying our online behaviour?

No matter your views... Please Comment!

I feel this will be a most interesting discussion.

"Human Bear Baiting" gives Social Care a Slating!

Guilty Pleasures... We all have them and one of mine is "Jeremy Kyle" - May be I am sad in many respects but i love the show... Yes he is a bit of an arrogant so and so but the show is a great deal of fun.

Its hard for me to put the show down or anyone who chooses to go on there as I have been on Trisha and GMTV (where I got to meet the lovely Lorraine Kelly). But its not hard to see why so many people are now having serious issues with social services.

Just this very morning I am sat watching another family in crisis. But what horrifies me most despite the fellas lack of passion is the Violence from the mother!

It seems to be a socially acceptable thing for not only people to air their dirty laundry in public and make the children ashamed of them in the future (The re-runs will always be there...) but the number of people that stride out claiming abuse then go and attack people!

These people give a very clear indication as to where Social Services should be concentrating efforts to protect families and children... A serious and dangerous reflection of our society that seems to be getting worse. Yet does anyone pay attention?

No! In fact if you ask any Social Worker they will always make the excuse they do not have the time to watch the show... Funny that! I have located a great deal of Social Workers that are fans of the show and even follow it Facebook page. (Whoops!)

Now Honestly, If the Social Services did try and handle every family that appeared on this show - It would be a disaster! But there is a clear and present vision of our society presented on this show day after day... And shows a clear and serious problem that needs to be dealt with.

Social Care is lacking the resources to really help families before they reach this crisis point and now the governments new proposed reforms are going to make that even harder!

Its horrific that because of the new reforms, we are only going to give birth to more Jeremy Kyle shows and more kids being taken onto care... The system is failing and we are condemning children to suffer.

EDUCATION IS KEY! But we are so out of touch... It needs to be started young but NOT SEX!

Social Services main complaint with many families is they "lack the understanding of their actions" - Well, yes! Look at Jeremy Kyle every morning and you will see they are right... But what are we doing about it? NOTHING!

There is plenty of talk, but no action... We need children and parents taught Sociology and relationship education as early as possible... Not where to put their privates... Frankly! Most kids know more about that aspect already than I do... And I am 40 years old!

In fact it was only a month ago that my Sisters 22 year old friend joked about "Tea Bagging"... I was totally clueless! I am not ashamed to admit it!

The longer we ignore the issue that our society is crumbling to a new low... The more children will be at risk... Jeremy Kyle should be a one-stop shop to catch the worst offenders and start taking some real action...

Will Social Services ever do that? I doubt it! They are too afraid of confrontation...

At least Jeremy and his team are trying to do something about the rot... God knows some one has too.